RED FLAG

Controlling Behavior and Jealousy

• Early signs of jealousy or possessiveness, such as wanting to know your location at all times or discouraging you from spending time with friends or family.

RED FLAG

Quick Involvement and Intensity

• They push for commitment very quickly or claim intense love soon after meeting, often trying to isolate you from others to “focus on the relationship.”

RED FLAG

Blaming Others and Refusing Responsibility

• They never accept fault, often blaming others for their problems, including failed past relationships, work issues, or even minor daily inconveniences.

RED FLAG

Frequent Put-Downs or Criticism

• They make frequent negative comments about your looks, career, or intelligence, often disguised as “jokes” but making you feel inadequate or embarrassed.

RED FLAG

Extreme Mood Swings

• Their emotions shift rapidly, from intense affection to anger, which can be unsettling and unpredictable. They may react disproportionately to small issues.

RED FLAG

Intimidation and Threats

• They make threats, either overt or subtle, to make you feel insecure or fearful about leaving the relationship.

RED FLAG

Pressure for Physical Boundaries

• They push or pressure you into physical intimacy, disregarding your comfort level or personal boundaries.

RED FLAG

Disregard for Your Feelings and Opinions

• They belittle your ideas or emotions, making you feel “silly” or “overreacting” whenever you express discomfort or voice your needs.