Early signs of jealousy or possessiveness, such as wanting to know your location at all times or discouraging you from spending time with friends or family.
RED FLAG
Quick Involvement and Intensity
They push for commitment very quickly or claim intense love soon after meeting, often trying to isolate you from others to “focus on the relationship.”
RED FLAG
Blaming Others and Refusing Responsibility
They never accept fault, often blaming others for their problems, including failed past relationships, work issues, or even minor daily inconveniences.
RED FLAG
Frequent Put-Downs or Criticism
They make frequent negative comments about your looks, career, or intelligence, often disguised as “jokes” but making you feel inadequate or embarrassed.
RED FLAG
Extreme Mood Swings
Their emotions shift rapidly, from intense affection to anger, which can be unsettling and unpredictable. They may react disproportionately to small issues.
RED FLAG
Intimidation and Threats
They make threats, either overt or subtle, to make you feel insecure or fearful about leaving the relationship.
RED FLAG
Pressure for Physical Boundaries
They push or pressure you into physical intimacy, disregarding your comfort level or personal boundaries.
RED FLAG
Disregard for Your Feelings and Opinions
They belittle your ideas or emotions, making you feel “silly” or “overreacting” whenever you express discomfort or voice your needs.
Recognizing these behaviors early on can help you identify unhealthy patterns that might escalate into abuse. Trust your instincts, and don’t hesitate to seek help or set firm boundaries if these signs appear.